In the game of attraction, one of the critical points that separate the master seducers from the average guy is great eye contact. It doesn't matter who you are or how good you are with women, you can reduce blowouts or rejections by having better eye contact skills. ... It has been said that a man's eyes are the gateway to his soul, and by looking into them you can see the strength of his spirit.
What do you think women see when they look into your eyes?Let's find out... The First Test of Strength: When you meet a woman for the first time, you must maintain steady eye contact. An easy way to do this is to focus on just one eye. I usually just take my right eye and look at her right eye. This makes it easier to focus without darting back and forth. When you're at a party and you approach a girl you like, it’s important that you try keep consistent steady eye contact until you see some signs of attraction. This doesn't mean keep your eyes totally glued on hers, but keep your gaze on her as much as possible. Every time you break your eye contact, it gives the woman the opportunity to decide where or not she’ll keep listening or just leave. It’s the same thing when it comes to an aggressive dog -- if you stand firm and look a dog right at his face, the dog will bark, but will not charge you. The dog will recognize that your frame is stronger than his, and will back down. It may even let you pet it. However if you look away or turn away, the dog will often continue it's aggression. The Screening Frame: When you look a woman in the eye while speaking, the woman often feels that you are screening her. This may be subconscious, but it sets off an auto-pilot response to start self-monitoring. This self-monitoring may often show in the form of preening (fixing her hair, touching her face, etc.) Regardless, she will feel like she's put in an intense spotlight, so bright that she can barely pay attention to what you're saying. You notice this a lot when you give women solid eye contact and they utter "what..." followed by a nervous, self-monitoring smile. If you do it right, she'll often feel an momentary surge of inexplicable attraction for you. This is how powerful eye contact is. (You can use eye contact alone without saying anything special and get a woman attracted.) [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZF2Yb1_vcRw[/embed] Notice how Mickey Rourke doesn't take his eyes off Kim Basinger and follows her eyes even as she tries to look away. This is a very seductive technique. He's not glaring at her, but displaying his confidence and interest through his eyes.
"You never get a second chance to make a first impression."
Bad body language displays unattractive traits like weakness, nervousness, neediness, insecurity, discomfort, and submissiveness. Good body language will show alpha male traits and attractive traits like dominance, strength, relaxed confidence, and being at secure with oneself and at ease around a