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How to Tap Into Your Inner Badass

Article by Kinowear contributor Jonathan Mead

Let’s face it, everyone wants to be a “badass.” The type of person that is unafraid to live how they want, totally free from restraint.

But is it really possible to learn how to be a badass? That’s supposed to be something you’re born with, right? I don’t think so. I think everyone has an inner, alter-ego badass, waiting to be unleashed.

All you have to do is practice letting it out. And I’m about to show you how to do that.

But first let’s take a look at…

The Validity of the Badass

Here’s what makes the badass trait so desirable:

  • A badass has an “I don’t give a damn” attitude. They seem to live on their own terms, free from the social constraints that leave others feeling inhibited. Their careless attitude may seem like they really don’t care about anything, but they realize that by not caring about things that don’t matter, they liberate themselves.
  • Badasses are natural leaders. Confidence naturally builds trust in others. If others are uncertain, but you are 100% certain, they’ll gravitate toward you.
  • Badasses get what they want. They put themselves first and in doing so, unabashedly seek out and attain what they desire. This is actually a highly positive trait to have, as long as you don’t use or manipulate others to get what you want.
  • They don’t tolerate BS. They don’t have low self-esteem. Therefore, they have no need to tolerate bullsh**.
  • Excitement. This is, hands down, the most coveted trait of them all. Badasses, renegades, outliers, whatever you want to call them, live on the edge. They’re not afraid to take risks or break the rules. Their fearlessness enables them to ignore the so-called practical requirements for living the masses prescribe to. Badasses realize that most rules are really just agreements. They don’t agree that life needs to be dull, boring, drudgery. Therefore, they take risks and choose endeavors that would make others cringe.

But the most catalytic factor between the badass and the average citizen is this:

Regular People Exist, Badasses Live

Badasses arrive at the grave thoroughly used up. They aren’t afraid to speak their mind or take a risk for something they believe in. The faint at heart think about taking action toward their dreams, but this type of man wastes no time hesitating.

As I said earlier, I think everyone has an inner badass. Whether yours is dormant or stirring, I think we could all be well-served to connect with this side of ourselves.

Below are some strategies for tapping into your inner rebel without a cause. But remember, the most desirable trait is living on your own terms. So follow these rules or break them; they’re your agreements.

  1. Say what you mean. Don’t beat around the bush. Use strong, powerful language. Avoid words like “try,” “maybe,” and “someday.” Replace them with “will,” “of course,” and “absolutely.” Also avoid using politically correct language. Don’t dumb down your words. If you want to say “shell shock”, say it! Don’t say “post traumatic stress disorder.”
  2. Question authority. One of the oldest living renegades, Siddhartha Gautama (also known as the Buddha) once said “Do not believe anything that you’ve been told, unless it agrees with your own common sense.” The same advice applies 2,000 years later. Listen to yourself first, before you listen to the experts.
  3. Be independent. Don’t rely on anyone else to tell you that something is possible, and don’t seek anyone else’s permission to do what you want. You may work synergistically within your tribe, but your sense of self does not depend on it. Your independence means that you are firmly rooted enough in your self that you don’t seek validation externally.
  4. Don’t tolerate BS. A renegade may be a showman and occasionally embellish circumstances, but keeping it real always comes first. The more you give into pretense and duplicity, the more you become fake. A badass may have a flare for the dramatic, but he is by no means counterfeit.
  5. Push your threshold of uncertainty. A true badass is not afraid of taking risks. Though he may have fears, he acts in spite of them. He knows that giving into fear is the mind killer. The more you give into fear, the more you give away ownership of your mind. To cultivate the renegade mindset, you must accustom yourself to act in spite of uncertainty. You’re not afraid to steer off the highway and engage in unexplored terrain.
  6. Face reality head on. You don’t shirk away from responsibility. While most people are whining about their problems, you see challenges as opportunities to improve and grow.
  7. Do what you want. This is crucial and really ties into the other six points. When you’ve fully embraced and in tune with your inner bad-ass, you develop a life that is incredibly awesome. You know that most rules are social agreements, so you have no problem pursuing your passions while everyone else is complaining that it’s not practical. You know that you create your own reality, so you decide what’s practical and what isn’t. You realize that doing what you want is mostly a matter of discovering an intersection of your deep passion and the world’s deep need. You find out how to use your unique gifts (strengths) and brain malfunctions (flaws) as opportunities to market yourself. You figure out ways to get paid to exist.

These are just a few of the major traits I’ve discovered of the quintessential bad-ass. Remember, even if you think you’re shy or you’re not made out for the prolific life, that’s just your ego talking.

Your inner renegade is in there, waiting to be unleashed.

This article was written by Jonathan Mead; revolutionary, raw foodist, dream coach, and prolific blogger. He is interested in unconventional paths to personal growth and advocates strange things like killing your goals. In his spare time he studies Jeet Kune Do and other ass-kicking strategies. He also wrote a pretty cool book, called Reclaim Your Dreams – An Uncommon Guide to Living on Your Own Terms.

  • Miggy

    Nothing short of badass mate.

  • Awesome. I can relate to this as I have been interested in exploring my badass side… Thanx a lot!

  • Firoz

    I have to disagree with you on some points Jon.

    This article describes the triads of a Free-man, a free man doesn’t have to be a bad-ass, but in this article a bad-ass has to be a free-man.

    Also The triad “Do what you want.” Is often misinterpreted “Do what you want.” Does mean, If you don’t want to sail or go bungee jumping then don’t do it. But it doesn’t mean, which people often think, taking the easy way or just not doing something because you are lacy, like not completing your reps in the middle of a exercise or not going skydiving because you are SCARED some things have to be done in order to gain what you want.

    For the rest, great article Jon. You always get me inspired *thumps up!*

    PS: What Jon says about “Remember, even if you think you’re shy or you’re not made out for the prolific life, that’s just your ego talking.” Your ego is a big problem that almost everyone has, “The only real enemy to have ever existed is an internal one and he controls the external world”. If you want to watch a great, and amusing, movie about this watch Revolver with Jason Statham (Showed in the first picture 😉 ), you will see how big the problem of your inner-ego is and also a little bid about the exceptions of triad #7 “Do what you want”

  • LOL, never thought of the Buddha as a Badass 😉

  • Great article! I like the idea of being a “badass” have positive connotation. Women need to read this article so they can understand the difference between a real “badass” and a douche-bag.

  • to Meena

    Lol, I know I was confident, but didn’t know I was a badass ha ha. Damn, it’s nice to live like a badass though, I feel wonderful

  • Omar

    Taking notes. When I take on challenges my soul is cleansed whether I succeed or fail. It’s necessary to go against the norm because you can live a gloomy and unsuccessful life. I’m still learning, I haven’t mastered all the aspects of being an a bad ass. Love this article. Inspirational and inspiring.

  • Excellent article! I love reading the articles on this site because they are all higher quality than I normally come across. I found this one to be especially interesting, since my own site is mostly focused on this topic. Keep up the awesome material, guys!

  • J.K

    I finally have something to visualize (ala. silva method). I’m visualising myself with these qualities of badass. Great article, i’m reading it every day. 🙂

  • Anonymous

    I find that several points in this blog to be accurate. Restriction sucks ASS. I find ignorance, self-doubt, and second guessing to be forms of restriction that commonly effect the masses

    ~Anonymous

    Ah, what the hell

    ~Gage Jackson, Badass