Comments on: Taking Off The False Mask

By: Julio Callizo

Julio Callizo — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 22:28:02 +0000

Great article, jae, this one goes strait to the core, it hits in the bullseye, just so you can know I’m from Paraguay and this article really helped me, it changed my life and I still read it to remind my self of being honest and to live and show honesty to others and the best of it is that this article along with others in the site did help me to get better and deep relationships with woman and people in general thank you very Mucho! cheers from Souht america

By: Smile

Smile — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 10:47:58 +0000

Great article. I love it.
But who are the real you ?
Its hard to find yourself when others often makes a label of you.
If others expect a nerdy guy behaviour from you, after a while you may start thinking like a nerd. And if you do something else they will say “that’s not you, take of a mask.”
The best thing to do is that you are honest to yourself, if you are honest then you can figure out what you have to improve in yourself to be the man you want to be..
And always do what you want to do and newer care what other will think of you.

By: Mark

Mark — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 12:42:37 +0000

I love this blog with such great posts as the one above. People can always tell when you are not being yourself. The true self always shines through especially to women who are extra sensitive with this ort of thing

By: J.L.

J.L. — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 22:28:54 +0000

Great work Jae. I’ll definitely bookmark this article and read it occasionally to remind myself to always “cut the bullshit”. It’s a trap many of us, especially young guys, fall into. A hole that we keep on digging deeper and deeper until in the end we have no choice but bury ourselves in it. I especially like this sentence you wrote, Jae:

Do you TELL more than you SHOW?

I’d like to add something more to that:

Do you TELL more than you DO?

At the end of the day, the only way to improve one’s image (physically, socially, psychologically) is to get out there and start DOING instead of telling lies and pretending to be someone that you are not. Terrific post.

By: Philip

Philip — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 20:17:01 +0000

I consider myself lucky to have stumbled upon this article. It is not only well written and insightful, you can feel the writer genuinely wants to help people.

By: Daniel.S

Daniel.S — Fri, 22 May 2009 16:38:27 +0000

Great article. I think its like admit the place you’re in now, so that you can work to your destination full-time. Deviations from this will just delay, and waste energy.

By: me

me — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 19:12:44 +0000

bravo excellent post keep educating men on how to be real men

By: Stephan

Stephan — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 22:37:47 +0000

Best article in the site.

As another poster commented, a refreshing change from the “fake it until you make it.”

Keep it up.

By: Lance

Lance — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 23:14:40 +0000

Jae, outstanding post, this really hits home. We’ve all lied and maintained the false mask, as true men need to stop that shit. That’s for the eye opener and keep up the good work.

By: Eric

Eric — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 14:55:16 +0000

Wow.. thank you.