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It’s important that as a foundation to your best style, you need to know who you are, your core purpose, and the type of people you want to attract or build stronger relationships with. Skipping this first stage is the root cause of many common image mistakes such as being incongruent with your personality, looking try-hard, or merely following trends that come and go.
Through all my years of being out in the field of working with people on looking and feeling their best, I’ve broken down the process of how a guy can go from having no style to making an amazing impression.
There’s a lot of “what to wear” and “what not to wear” type of advice out there, but nobody is talking about a method on how to really develop your own unique sense of style.
I recently saw a friend’s closet, and he had so many amazing pieces in his closet – more than me! I was blown away and I asked him, “How the heck do you build this amazing wardrobe?” He told me, “It didn’t take me that much effort actually…”
It’s not easy to reach a huge goal by yourself, but with the help of other people who have the same objective in mind, almost 80% of the time and effort you will spend on non-important things will be eliminated.
“The man who isn’t constantly making important decisions in his life has no vision, and without vision there can’t be proper goals, and without goals, there is no progress — only mediocrity at best.”
Let’s face it, everyone wants to be a “badass.” The type of person that is unafraid to live how they want, totally free from restraint.
But is it really possible to learn how to be a badass? That’s supposed to be something you’re born with, right? I don’t think so. I think everyone has an inner, alter-ego badass, waiting to be unleashed.
All you have to do is practice letting it out. And I’m about to show you how to do that.
But first let’s take a look at…
Building self-confidence is something that most people leave to chance. Many settle for the belief that as you get older you’ll just automatically grow in confidence through “experience.” But waiting for external factors to give you confidence is like building your house on sandy ground. When the flood comes, your house will be washed away and left in ruins.
Have you ever heard someone speak and felt compelled to soak up every word? You just want to know them, be around them and learn from. That’s the mark of a remarkable person.
While some people are born with an enigmatic quality, most people become that way willfully. Many highly charismatic, magnetic people didn’t get that way by accident. They didn’t stumble upon greatness; they became great deliberately.
Think back to a time when you were talking passionately about something to your friends. Did you notice that all of them gave you their full attention? Recall how you not only commanded attention but you probably spoke confidently, articulately, and with self-assurance in your voice. As image consultants, we spend a lot of time…
What are your major goals this year?
Imagine that at the end of this year, you meet some friends you haven’t seen in a very long time. Imagine that the look on their faces is that of total shock. Imagine their jaws hitting the floor, and not being able to continuously voice how much you’ve transformed. You already knew this would happen, because you planned it. You love this moment – it’s nothing but glorious. It’s one of the greatest signs to yourself that you’ve grown tremendously.
