What are REAL beautiful women REALLY saying about first impressions?
On the quest to find the ultimate answer to this question, I’ve surveyed more than a hundred highly coveted women and picked at their female brains - digging deep into their answers and discovering universal patterns.
Some of these women are close friends, some of them I’ve met through social circles (every hot girl knows at least a couple other hot girls), others I’ve met at clubs or bars. I’ve interviewed these women either through phone, the internet, or in person. This ensures that you’re getting quality answers.
I’ve cut the misleading fluff by running it over multiple times with all these women and got to the core essence of it all.
What’s very important is that I made it a point to only interview high caliber women. When I say high caliber, I’m talking highly mature, confident, intelligent, and beautiful women. The kind of women that most guys would want. How do I know this? because all of these girls have men chasing them.
I’ve made this article a faster read by combining highly similar answers into the best collective answer - no point in reading the same answers over and over.
Again, these are all answers from real women that I’ve interviewed, not some contrived, misleading fluff that you might find in a dating magazine.
A little disclaimer: some men might be offended by this, and others might be take it as a wakeup call. Regardless of how you receive it, this is a rare collection of wisdom so take full advantage of it.
Without further delay, here’s what they had to say…
What Women Notice At First Glance
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When you greet someone or make eye contact with them you naturally look at their face first.
This doesn’t mean the first impression ends there depending on how good looking the guy is.
We look at how good looking he is, but the most important thing is that he is well groomed.
When we look at his face we automatically look at the hair on top and around his face. The hair should be styled in some way and not just sitting on top of his head.
It should definitely not look like he just got out of bed.
His face should be perfectly shaved, and if he has a beard, it should be shaped without stray hairs.
Some guys can pull off a light stubble and look sexy if done intentionally and kept under control and not all over the place in different lengths.
If a man looks unkempt and messy, we assume that the man doesn’t really care what others think about them - and not in the good way. He probably doesn’t interact with anyone important, especially women.
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If you don’t think you are blessed in the face department, what’s more important is that you’re well groomed. You can also make up for it in the other things we look at.
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The next thing we naturally look at is his silhouette or body type.
Basically we just look at whether the guy is fit or not.
He should look strong and not have the body of a girl. If we are bigger than him, something is wrong.
If he’s skinny he should be cut and have some muscle on him, if he’s a big guy he should be mostly hard muscle and not too flabby. For example having a midsection that looks like a flat tire around his waist is not attractive.
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The next most important thing that we will look at is his STYLE.
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This includes the way he’s dressed, his hairstyle, his body language, and his confidence.
When it comes to a guy’s image, it’s all about how confident he is in his own skin.
He should be neither trying too hard to impress, nor neglecting attention to his appearance. He should show a level of respect for himself for taking care of his appearance, but not seem like he’s trying to be someone he’s not.
He should wear things that make him feel comfortable but at the same time make sure to show some personality. So many guys have no style whatsoever. Even one little item that shows some personality goes a long way.
It also depends on the setting that they are dressed up for, you can tell a guy who isn’t comfortable in his own skin by the way he dresses to certain events.
If he’s too overdressed, it says he’s trying to impress, but if he’s too underdressed, it shows he doesn’t consider himself worthy to be noticed or care about the event.
Kinowear Tip: Always be upgrading your style in small increments. This could mean upgrading the clothes in your closet, getting fresh haircuts when necessary, bringing more personality into your outfits, or adding new colors to your wardrobe. Going for a gradual change will also help you avoid looking “try hard” by helping you understand the little things you are doing right, and what you’re doing wrong before it gets out of proportion.
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With first impressions, there is nothing that brings it over to the good side like great eye contact and a confident attitude.
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Not arrogance or cockiness, but being sure of himself.
High level of self-acceptance.
Security.
Healthy level of entitlement.
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This is why some guys may not have great style but still get girls because they naturally seem relaxed and they don’t look nervous when talking to us. If a guy who was super well dressed came up and said hi in a creepy or nervous way, we would probably lose interest at that moment. But even if a guy was somewhat poorly dressed or ugly, if he was confident and showed good energy we will reflect that energy back.
If the guy may not look stylish at first glance, a confident attitude will make up for it.
The best combination would be to have BOTH style and a confident attitude.
Remember: image is more than the clothing on you back, it’s the total communication of who you are.
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The guys who wear girl jeans - why the fuck would we want to know you can fit into our jeans? - Tiffany
They dress like shit or they dress too trendy, they don’t have their own style. It’s about finding that sweet spot in between not trying at all and trying hard, making it look effortless according to your personality - Haile
WEARING BORING CLOTHES LIKE HOLLISTER AND ABERCROMBIE! - Sarah
Most guys have NO style! - Jennifer
What ALL Women LOVE
Girls love men who smell good. This is SO IMPORTANT.
No one wants to be walking next to someone who smells like Big Foot’s dick.
We don’t want to be with someone that smells like shit all the time.
Girls wanna be with someone who’s got a nice smell…whether the guy is wearing a name brand cologne, or a random deodorant.. as long as the guy smells good, it’s a plus because you know that’s what the girl is doing when she hugs a guy, SMELLING HIM!
A Hundred and Counting
A hundred women may not sound like a lot, but that’s because high-quality women are rare. After all, do you really care to know what is going to attract an insecure, airhead who looks like Michael Jackson?
I don’t think any guy wants an insecure girl anyway, so I didn’t bother to interview them. Their answers will be different, and for most guys, irrelevant. Most of these girls don’t have guys chasing them, so they’ll make up answers and pretend to know what they’re talking about. One of the biggest mistakes guys make is asking these low-caliber, highly unattractive (zero love life) women for style & image advice.
Some girls don’t care about anything else except the body shape of the guy and how good he looks. The guy can be a total asshole but the girl won’t care because she’s with someone good looking, but this is because the girl is insecure and she’s just using the guy as a trophy to boost her sense of self.
You can do your own research by asking the women in your life similar questions, but they have to be highly mature and secure within themselves. They should also be the type of girl that at least a dozen other guys would want to date.
We suggest doing your best in all areas to make the best first impression.
And remember, the first impression isn’t all you need to attract women, you should back it up with an attractive personality. But if you’re meeting new girls, they can only make assumptions about you through the first meeting - what you’ve learned in this article will either help you get your foot in the door or get you shut out before you even open your mouth.
Now that you have the keys to making your best first impression with women, ask yourself which area you may be lacking in, and start improving it today.
P.S. Expect more interview articles like this in the future!
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