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Men’s Bracelets: Eye Candy For The Wrist

It’s Wednesday morning at 9am. I wake up, and start my morning routine. I brush my teeth, wash my face, style my hair.

Then I step before my closet, as I imagine my body as a blank canvas in which I can communicate the appropriate message for the situations I will find myself in for the rest of the day. I am participating in the language spoken through the non-verbal channels of human interaction.

I succeed in putting together a great outfit, but then I come to a part of my body that seems empty and rarely adorned, my wrists. Rarely do I wear anything on my wrists, except a watch to occasionally add a classy element to my outfit.

This topic must be addressed. I’ve already talked about necklaces, rings, watches, but I want to write about bracelets and how they can complement the rest of your look.


The Bare Necessity

The thing about accessories is that it’s the same with any other piece of fashion that you’re putting on your body-it’s not necessary. We don’t NEED to wear ANYTHING for that matter – although some things bring us more comfort when it comes to protecting us from unfavorable natural conditions. Like a thick wool coat that protects our bodies from the freezing snow. Who knows, maybe the cavemen adapted to unfavorable weather and were fine running around in nothing even during the frigid winters.

But I digress.

The point is that there is no need to feel that you should be wearing a bracelet, or any other accessory for that matter.

It’s just another way through which you can display your personality.

Not having a bracelet can display just as much as having one. It can say that you’re just a natural minimalist. It depends on what works for you. Maybe you have a cool birthmark on your wrist that gets more attention than a bracelet that covers it up. Or perhaps you’d rather wear an interesting watch or ring to get attention.

You could be the guy who likes to display his personality, or the guy that likes to be mysterious until people get to know him through conversation.

A good question to ask yourself is whether or not you want to use a bracelet as another access point in which you can say something about yourself.

For those of you who are interested in using bracelets as part of displaying a your personal style, come along with me as we explore the mystical realm of wrist adornments


Some tips and examples of great men’s wristwear:

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If you have a small skinny wrist, go for a bracelet that adds weight to your wrist such as these leather band bracelets:

Get a versatile bracelet like this one to match with any casual outfit. If you don’t like wearing a watch, it’ll add some style to your bare wrists.

If you’re going for that “surfer” look, display that laid-back attitude with a shell bracelet or a bracelet made of hemp.

For that “rocker” / “bad boy” edge, get something masculine and bold:



For a more subtle, refined look:


If you want to go for something more classy or flashy, get something in sterling silver that will give you some bling when you dress up.

Anything rubber will be more casual or sporty, whereas metal will be more dressy. A bracelet that mixes the two will be just in between.


As you can see, bracelets can be a small but great way to add an extra tone of flavor to your style.

Here are some great online sites where you can find a great selection of bracelets:
Gem-Fashion.com
Gilletts.com

Cheaper:
Tropicari.com
Calitrendz.com

Cheers,

Jae


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The Messenger Bag

Damn, Jack Bauer is such a badass.

It’s clear that it’s the messenger bag that makes this action shot. Most guys are afraid of the stigma they believe comes with wearing a “man purse.” However, Jack Bauer and the readers of Kinowear don’t let such limiting beliefs stop them from looking sexy. So let’s get to it.

Okay, seriously though. Despite what you may think, there is a whole smörgåsbord of bags out there for men. We’re talking manly suitcases, bookbags, carry-ons, you name it. They come in all different shapes, sizes, and colors. If you carry a bag at all times - whether for business or pleasure - then why not carry one that’s purposeful as well as effective in communicating your personality and lifestyle?

There are many types of bag to cover, but today, I’ll be focusing on the messenger bag.


Why Messenger Bags Are Great

Well, it’s all preference really. But personally, I love them because they go so well with almost any outfit. Plus most of the time, they’ll make you instantly stand out as a stylish guy. Even if you’re wearing a plain white t-shirt and jeans (which there is nothing wrong with), carrying a messenger bag elevates your style just because you’re not carrying a boring backpack (unless it’s a different type of backpack, which we’ll get into in another article). It’s just something most men are afraid to wear, like a pink shirt, and thus comes with an air of confidence.

Also, it’s a great fashion accessory. There are so many styles of messenger bags, and you can find one to go with almost any look.

Another reason why they’re so great is because you can just shove a bunch of bulky stuff in there - that won’t fit in your pocket - and have simple access to it. If you need something out of your bag, all you have to do is open up the flap - boom - reach in and grab it.

These types of bags are also great for high school and college students. If you’re a student, consider standing out from a sea of backpacks, by carrying your books and other school supplies in a stylish messenger bag.


Different Styles of Messenger Bags

The original messenger bag gets its name from being used in the transportation of mail and goods by numerous types of messengers, including Pony Express riders, postal workers, messengers on foot (especially in ancient times), and bicycle couriers. Some Royal Mail carriers in the United Kingdom currently use large messenger bags to deliver mail. (Wikipedia)


Biking

The true messenger bags will strap tight across your chest and fall across your back. This type of messenger bag is great for bikers because it will stay put as you ride.



Leather

Evolved from its original form of carrying mail, the fashion industry has taken the original messenger bag and made it more like a shoulder bag with sophisticated style. Many retail stores will have messenger bags in leather that look great for work or travel.

I carry a leather one to hold all my consultation materials when I’m meeting with clients. Other days, I’ll open up my messenger bag, stuff it with my laptop, planner, pens, a book, a water bottle, and a snack — then throw the strap across my chest, and walk out of the door like a super stylish super hero out to save the world from sartorial confusion.

Alright, maybe not. But I still love my messenger bag.


Classy and Clean

Both the Lacoste Croc and Fred Perry messenger bags are great for the classy, clean, and sporty guy.


All-Purpose

Want a great bag for school or travel? Want to find them cheap? Check out the Jack Bauer style canvas shoulder bags on Amazon.com. There are hundreds of designs to fit your style.


Create Your Own Bag

Bored and looking for something fun?

Timbuk2’s website enables you to create your own bags! If you’re a true artist, they even have “canvas” bags where you can paint your own designs on the bags.

If you have a lot of spare time, consider making a bag out of plastic bags lying around your house! Check out this video.

How cool is that?

Finding The Right Bag For You

Looking for a messenger bag is pretty simple. First make sure that its functions meet the needs of your lifestyle. If you’re a student, make sure it has slots to fit all your school supplies. If you’re a biker, make sure your bag has strap adjustments that will ensure that the bag stays on your body. If you need one for work, make sure that it has enough space for your laptop or whatever else you need to carry around. Second, ask yourself if it’s presenting a part of personality that you want others to see. Is it strictly business? Is it artistic? Is it simply used as a bag and not fashion? The details are what matter most. Silver buckles on a leather bag will be more classy, plastic more laid-back.

The better question to ask yourself is “Do I have a bag that is both purposeful and congruent with what I want to communicate?” If not, it may be time to upgrade. A messenger bag perhaps? ;]

Always helping you look your personal best,

Jae

P.S. Check out this video of one Kinowear.com reader’s total style transformation from an average “polo shirt guy” into a GQ model.

What Does A Stylish Belt Look Like?

Many men think belts are optional. If you read this site, then belts are not optional accessories. If you have any interest in style, you should believe that belts are essential. Like ties and pocket squares, belts are another small piece of an outfit that can make or break the entire look. A belt can say so much about you and add flair to an otherwise boring outfit.


Congruence is in the details

When women size your style up, they usually zone in on the details. Notice the attention to details in this belt– the orange stitching against black works perfectly. Wear this belt with an outfit that has orange accents, and you are playing in a different league. Women will notice.


Two main types of belts

Dressy and casual. Generally, skinner belts are dressier (meant for suits and dressed-up sportswear. Dressy belts are normally made of calfskin, and are adorned with a simple buckle (as seen below). Thicker/wider belts are for casual outfits–denim, cargo, corduroys, etc.


Dressy belts:

These should be a staple in every man’s wardrobe. The belts you wear with a suit should be sleek and simple. They should NOT have huge or fancy buckles or elaborate belt designs. Keep it understated and elegant. As for the belt leather, if you want to take it a step above, invest in high-quality leather such as crocodile leather. If the price tag makes you queasy, take comfort in the fact that a quality belt can last a lifetime.

For the color: stick to black and brown. (Brown belts go better with lighter colors and are a great bridge between light pants and colored shirts.)

If you’re having trouble differentiating the two, dressy belts tend to be a little wider than the width of your thumb. This is also where where the classic rule of matching your belt color with your shoes applies.

Material: stick to calfskin. Of course there is: lizard, ostrich, and crocodile…(upwards of $500+). Check out Trafalgar for classic genuine alligator belts.


Casual belts:

This is where it gets fun. This is where you have much more freedom with belts. Casual belts have a much greater range in the material it’s made of including suede, cloth, canvas, grosgrain, or nylon. Casual belts can be wider/thicker as well. As for color, you have white belts, several-tone…the combinations are limitless. In fact, the rules are relaxed in all respects. I’ve even seen guys pull of wearing a skinny tie as a belt. Risky, but extremely creative & stylish if done right.


Experimenting with buckles

This is where you start seeing the extremely stylish, over-sized buckles. However, this is also an area where many guys can go wrong. I’ve seen the most ridiculous-looking belt buckles–light-up dragons, toaster-sized tigers, etc. Then there are those LED belts with messages that scroll across. Please, stay away from these. Also, don’t get me wrong…I’m a fan of Nintendo, but please don’t wear your hobbies on your waist. Unless you’re in search of your long-lost Star Wars geek lover.

Many guys think wearing a loud and ridiculous belt is “peacocking.” It is. It will turn heads and grab attention. However, it’s also sending the wrong message: “look at my hideous belt and my total disregard of style.” You don’t want to start on that foot. Having a “unique style” doesn’t free you from the rules of attraction. Even when you’re adding your own flair and personality to an outfit, remember that there is unique stylish and then there’s unique train wreck. So stay away from gimmicky, gaudy buckles.


Creating a COMPLETE look

So when diving into the crazy world of belt buckles, tread with caution. The bigger the buckle, the riskier it gets. Stay away from tacky, toy-like buckles. Stay away from mirror-shiny buckles. Most importantly, keep it congruent with the rest of the look. At the end of the day, this is what “pulling it off” is about. It’s about whether that piece fits seamlessly with the “look” and “vibe” of the overall outfit. You can break all sorts of rules with congruence.

For example, you may look ridiculous trying to pull off a huge cowboy-esque buckle with clean-cut chinos and a polo. However, if you go the whole way, get yourself some distressed brown jeans, a tan graphic tee, a dark denim jacket, and add that same buckle to a thick brown leather belt–you have a complete look that works.


Some examples of stylish casual belts

There are certain fashion archetypes that each style of accessory carries. Be aware of that archetype/stereotype and play off it to create that complete look.

Woven leather (or braided) belts is a summer favorite that work extremely well with slim-cut pants and collared shirts. Perfect for the clean-cut, preppy, ivy-league look.

Here is one that plays on the military vintage look. Check out G-Star Raw & Diesel for some great military-inspired looks.

White belts are great to play against a modern, black-and-white chic look. (they are great for nightlife. Wear this with a black button-down and some jeans and your belt will set you apart from every one else.)

An example of a unique, double-buckle, wrap-around belt. Another perfect belt for the nightlife scene. This black w/ purple-striped cloth belt is perfect for a casual, yet classy modern look.

The ever-popular studded brown belt. This one works great for that grungy, rocker look that’s extremely popular these days:


Belt sizes

Belts are usually sold with a tag on it indicating its size. Take your waist size, and remember to go 1-2″ size bigger. This way, your “33″ or “34″ waist translates into a “36 - 40″ belt size.

Storing belts

A tip of about storing belts. If you’re going to invest $100+ in a belt, you may want to also protect your purchase. A lot of men have a habit of leaving their belts in their pants or rolling them up. This will curve the leather and damage its seems. Belts should always hang vertically and away from sunlight, so as not to dry out and damage the leather.

Reveal that belt!

If you’re going casual, show some of your belt! All the belt savvy in the world will be rendered pointless if you’re just going to throw your shirt over it. To show some belt: tuck it/let it rest over the buckle as seen in this picture. It helps to accent and balance the outfit.


That’s it for belts. For more on belts, check out our style community.

Stay sharp,

Theory

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PS: Many of the belt images you see here were taken from YesStyle.com. You can find a great selection of stylish belts / buckles there.

How To Fold A Pocket Square

It’s a simple piece of cloth that can elevate your style from bland to stylish. If worn well, at the appropriate times, it will speak volumes about your fashion sense. Like the tie, it is one of those small details a man has to add accent and personality to his outfit.

Some of you may be thinking…

Pocket square!? Why would I ever wear a pocket square?

Here’s the thing: just because you don’t normally wear a pocket square doesn’t mean there aren’t occasions where your outfit could supremely benefit from one. If pocket squares are a new thing for you, take a chance and try it out. The next time you’re wearing a suit, a blazer, try adding a quiet color/pattern pocket square with a subtle fold like the Flat Pocket Square Fold.

People will notice. Women will notice.

(If you own a suit and don’t own a pocket square, go pick one up at the suit/tie section of any department store. You don’t necessarily have to be wearing a suit to wear a pocket square. You don’t need a tie to wear a square. They’re more versatile than you think and definitely essential to every man’s wardrobe.)

Now, given that many men out there don’t even wear pocket squares, it follows that many are lost when it comes to folding one. Here are a few of my favorites folds:


» Flat Pocket Square Fold
(see above picture)

The square fold is the simplest fold of them all. It’s also the most versatile and subtle way to wear a pocket square. To fold, simply fold into quarters and insert into your jacket pocket.


» Puff Pocket Square Fold

This is another common fold that allows the square to “puff out” of the pocket. Here is a step-by-step illustration of how this “puff” is achieved:

Step 1: Lay your pocket square flat with the two top corners horizontal. Pinch the middle of the pocket square and pick it up.

Step 2: As you pick up the pocket square, tuck the sides in as in the diagram.

Step 3: With one hand firmly holding the pocket square, use your other hand to gently gather it closed.

Step 4: Now gracefully gather up the bottom of the pocket square

Step 5: Tuck as needed and place your pocket square in your jacket pocket

Now for one that’s a bit more complicated:


» Dunaway Pocket Square Fold

For the first part, follow Steps 1, 2, & 3 of the Puff Pocket fold. From there, this is where it gets fun:

Step 4: Now gracefully roll the top of the pocket square in the direction of the arrow.

Step 5: Carefully lift the bottom points up.

Step 6: Flatten the points.

Step 7: Tuck as needed and place your pocket square in your jacket pocket


» Three Stairs Pocket Square Fold

The next one is rather complex, reminiscent of origami. However, the end result is a subtle, yet elegant look.

Step 1: Lay your pocket square flat with one corner facing up and one corner facing down.

Step 2: Fold the bottom corner up to meet the top corner

Step 3: Fold the front fold partially down so that it goes past the bottom of the pocket square.

Step 4: Now take the same fold and fold it back up towards the top of the pocket square.

Step 5: Now fold back towards the bottom of the pocket square. Be sure and keep your folds neat.

Step 6: Fold a small fold twards the top of the pocket square.

Step 7: Pause, and take a look at your pocket square folds so far. It should look basically like the illustration

Step 8: Now this is a little tricky: fold the right half of the pocket square behind the left side. If done correctly, you will still see the folds.

Step 9: Now rotate the righthand corner of the pocket square 90 degrees. Then fold the left side to the right.

Step 10: fold the right side to the left and we are done.

Step 11: Tuck as need and place your pocket square in your jacket pocket.


If you really want to peacock
, here’s something you won’t find at your local department store…

Introducing:

» The Shibori Pocket Square.

You must be thinking… what’s so great about a wrinkled pocket square?

Exhibit A: Sak’s Fifth’s Terron Schaefer.

He picked one up abroad in Japan, and learned the art of folding one of these unique pocket squares. The end result is what you see in the above picture. The floral effect of this pocket square is achieved through shibori, the Japanese process of manipulating fabric to add shape and dimension.

Peacocking. Down to the pocket square.

You can pick one up at the MoMA store for around $20. As for folding it, you’re on your own…

Stay Sharp,

Theory

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How To Tie A Tie: The Pursuit Of The Perfect Knot

How well can you tie a necktie?

Last night I’m at a party, and I chat up this gorgeous blonde with dark smoky eye makeup, angular face, an hourglass figure and long legs. After a good session of banter and comfort building, she compliments me on my tie and pulls it towards her for a kiss - at which point I thanked the man who invented them in my head.

I’m pretty confident that I look great in ties. Having to rock a tie each morning can build some expertise when it comes to executing a precise knot. That and being an image consultant has some side effects…

Here’s another side-effect: my super-trained brain can quickly assess whether a man has the skillful knowledge of how to tie a tie with perfection. It’s subtle, but it makes all the difference in the way he looks. For example, a simple touch such as a dimple in a tie can add both sophistication and depth to one man’s outfit, while another’s childish knot can add the look of a clip-on from the fifth grade.

So as I’m putting on my tie this morning I’m wondering just how many men are completely unaware of this subtle and absolutely necessary art.

Maybe you’ve never learned how to tie a tie. Maybe you’re just out of practice. Maybe you wear one to work each day, but want a fresh trick or two to upgrade your style. Where ever you are, I’m sure you can learn something today.

So…let’s dive into the twisted world of silk…

How many different knots do you know?

If you’re like most men, at some point in your life your father probably showed you one simple way to tie a necktie; he probably mumbled something under his breath, attempting to demonstrate, and told you to go figure it out on your own. From then on, you most likely never bothered to teach yourself another kind of knot other than the one that gets the job done quickly.

Well, it’ll do you good to learn some different knots, because one of the greatest ways to accessorize is with a tie.

Did you ever consider which knots go better with certain outfits? Or perhaps even…best for your body frame?

If you don’t know how to tie a tie at all, you’re going to learn TODAY. The day will come when you’re going to have to don a necktie…and heaven forbid the day your parents, friends, or girlfriend is unable to help you…

Instead of settling for a clip-on, here’s a challenge for you:

Master at LEAST one of these knots. Not that hard at all.

What is mastery? You should be able to get a perfect tie knot and length in relatively less than 30 seconds.

If you already know one way to tie a necktie, learning some different ways will give you more options. You might even find a new one you really like, or another way of tying it that goes better with more casual wear. Try them all and decide which ones suit you best.

You’ll thank me later.

I say that if you want to be a man of style, then this knowledge is a given. You’ll take it with you to the grave. Even if you end up never wearing ties, just knowing in itself is a cool display of higher value. That way when your son asks you how to tie one, you won’t stand there frozen, regretting the day you skipped this article. ; )

Don’t worry, I’ll make it fun.

The best way to learn is LIVE, so I did the closest thing and posted up some youtube videos on how to tie different necktie knots.


Windsor

A lot of guys will mistakingly refer to this as the “double Windsor” due to the existence of the half Windsor. The proper term is The Windsor or Full Windsor.

The Windsor Knot is a thick, wide and triangular tie knot that projects confidence. It would therefore be your knot of choice for presentations, job interviews, courtroom appearances, and anywhere else you need to look respectable. This means you should definitely learn how to do this knot - it’s actually quite easy to do.

Because of it’s size, keep in mind that it is best suited for wide spread collar shirts.


Half-Windsor

The half-Windsor offers the upscale look of a Windsor with less effort. Accordingly, there’s a good chance that you’ll come to rely on it pretty heavily. It’s not as wide as the Windsor, but its still wide enough that you should make sure it’s not pushing your collar up awkwardly.


Pratt or “Shelby”

This knot is highly symmetrical, like the Windsor, but looser to wear and not as time-consuming to create. Since the Pratt is neither as large as the Windsor nor as narrow as the four-in-hand knot, it pairs well with most dress shirts and looks suitable on any occasion.

I couldn’t find a video with words so here are the instructions to go along with the video:

1. Place the tie around your neck with the seam (the end with the tag) facing outward on both the thin and fat ends. Note that the fat end should be hanging lower than the thin end on the chest.

2. Cross the two ends over to form an X and flip the fat end and through the loop to form a knot around the smaller end.

3. Pull both ends apart quite tightly to ensure your knot is snug, then bring the fat end of the tie over the thin end to cover your first knot.

4. Pull the fat end up and through the loop, then drop it down through the knot.

5. Tighten and dimple up.


Four-in-hand

Here is a great one to wear with casual clothes, learn this knot. Try this with a casual dress shirt with softer material, preferably with a smaller spread. This one will come in handy when you’re in a rush too.

It’s naturally going to be a little asymmetrical, so don’t be discouraged that it doesn’t look straight, that’s all part of the four-in-hand. The dimple is much harder to produce on this kind of knot, and sometimes will not form at all.

The four standard knots are the Four-in-hand, the Pratt, the half-Windsor, and the Windsor, and out of those I like the Windsor the best.

Try the St.Andrew knot if you want one that looks very much like the half-Windsor that is much easier to get right.

Some will say the St. Andrew is a much better choice than any of the four traditional knots if you only learn one knot. It’s difficult to make it look bad no matter how poorly or quickly you tie it.

Instructions for Tying a St. Andrew Knot

The video has no words so here are instructions for those of you who can’t get it right with the video alone.

Great symmetric knots (small to large):

  • the Nicky for a simple small knot
  • St. Andrew for a fuller knot like a half-Windsor
  • Windsor for a big triangle knot
  • Hanover for a really big triangle knot

Great “weird” knots (small to large):

  • Victoria (small tube)
  • Cavendish (asymmetrical knot)

You can search for these on youtube if you really want to outdo yourself, but unless you like to wear neckties frequently and you’ve mastered the four standard knots, there is no need to confuse yourself.


Choosing a Tie

After you have some practice and think you know what you’re doing, go talk to a man at a good men’s clothing store who takes his job seriously. He can show you how to really do it right, what to look for in a very good tie, and tricks that can’t be easily described in print. It’s going to cost you at least $40 for a good tie. If he says something along the lines of “a tie’s a tie,” or isn’t an expert at tying his own tie, go somewhere else.

When choosing a tie, your main concern should be on three things: the quality, the material and the color of the tie. Silk ties (made of 100% silk) are always best to have. Make sure that you pick one that is just the right thickness and length.

If you are tall, go for a longer tie.

The rule for tie length is that when tied in a properly fitted Windsor knot (or any other knot for that matter), the triangular point at the wide end of the tie should be able to meet your belt buckle. Make sure you bring a dress shirt to the store, and try it on before you buy.

When you finally pick out the tie you like, never forget to double check that it is not damaged, smudged, or crinkled in any way.

TIPS:

When choosing a knotting style, consider the thickness of the tie. Some ties are too thick to make anything other than a four-in-hand look decent. Some are so thin that the extra bulk added by one of the Windsor knots is needed to make the knot noticeable.

Are you aware that your face and skin also should affect your tie selection?

If you have a strong, angular face you look better in striped ties. Dotted and paisley printed ties go well with a round or baby face. Solid colors can be worn by everyone.

As you would match the shirt and suit to your skin before buying, so should you follow the same principles while selecting a tie.

If you have a slim build, check out some skinny ties, as they are in style right now.

Something else I really like are wool knit ties. Definitely something you don’t see often, but if you can pull it off, it looks great. There are also cashmere knit ties - which are more expensive than silk ties - but have a few classic pieces in your wardrobe before you decide to splurge on one.


A Trick to Getting the Right Tie Length Every Time

What is important to remember is that different ties are different lengths but it doesn’t really matter how long or short the short/skinny end of the tie is after you tie your tie. What is more important is how long the long/wide end of the tie is. This is what people see and what causes retying if you tie it incorrectly.

1. Let both of your arms hang down at your side. Hang your tie around your neck and hold the tip of the wide end of the tie in your outstretched arm’s hand, downward at your side.

2. Take mental note where the end of the wide end of the tie falls with regards to the length of your arm. (eg: middle of your fingers, tip of your fingers, a couple inches past your fingers) This serves as your personal gauge.

3. Tie your tie.

4. If the length is how you like it, you now know your personal gauge. If it’s too short/long for your preference, untie your tie and start over adjusting where the tip of your tie falls in your downward stretched hand adjusting for how short or long the tie was with the first tie attempt. Just slide the tie a little more over on your neck to adjust for this length difference. Just use this same gauge every time you tie your tie and the length will be about the same every time, right? The short/skinny end is the end that will vary with different ties.

What’s a collar spread?

Don’t know what different collar spreads look like? check here: http://ripleyshirts.com/Ripley_Collars/Ripley_Collars.html

If you have read this article and mastered the four standard knots, congratulations, you are officially trained in the basic arts of necktie tying.

Stay Sharp,

Jae


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Men’s Watches: Display Your Personality Through One Item

Few things say more about a man than his watch. Its character, look, and style give others a peek into a man’s background (and priorities) without having to ask a single question.”

Picture this:A stranger comes up to you and asks, “Excuse me, do you have the time?”

“Yeah sure, one sec.”

Checks cell phone*

Has this ever happened to you?

We live in a world where cell phones can almost be called extra appendages; rarely do we look at a watch to keep the time anymore.

When cell phones weren’t so easily obtainable, watches used to be highly convenient for time keeping. I feel that less people are wearing watches because of this; let’s not forget that more than just telling time, watches have a lot of value to offer.

Why Should I Wear A Watch?

I meet a lot of guys who say, “I don’t wear watches, I’m not really a watch guy.”

We all want to make a lasting first impression, and if you’re not going to display your personality through something that speaks as loud as a watch, you’re really missing out.

Men are limited to their choice of jewelry; an eye-catching watch is the only piece of jewelry that is acceptable for a man to splurge on. Even if you wear other types of jewelry, your watch should be the most noticeable accessory you own.

A man’s watch is just as important as his shoes to a women, and we all know how important shoes are.

If a man was naked besides having on amazing shoes and a quality watch, women will know more about that man than a clothed man without any shoes and a watch. Well, she’ll definitely know more than she probably wants to (I apologize for that picture) but you get the point.

The right watch will accentuate your outfits and make you look more confident. Women will look at what kind of watch you are wearing, and how it matches your outfit - gaining clues to your attention to style and detail.

If you take care of yourself, women will trust that you will take care of them.

Finding The Right Watch For You

Choosing a watch is very personal, so explore the community of watch connoisseurs and aficionados before you make a big purchase. Some of these guys are crazy, but it’s pretty darn fun talking to them about it.

A quality watch will last you a lifetime, so it can become well worth your investment. If you take care of your watch really well, you may be able to sell it for a good price later on - if you decide to.

A watch gives you one of the greatest ways of showcasing your personality. It can say that you’re a diver, a sailor, a pilot. It can show how successful, stylish, and refined you are. It can even show that you don’t care much about anything, and that you’re just out to have fun - for example, I used to wear a Tazmanian Devil watch with a hologram on it, and if you pressed the button on the side the face would open, and the inside part would pop up at you. People would be staring at the hologram up close, and then I would spring it up into their face - which freaked them out and made them laugh.

There are lots of ways to show personality through a watch.

Let’s take a look at some different watches and styles:

Here is an example of a classic watch:

The Omega Speedmaster Professional, this watch was the first watch worn on the moon! How awesome is that? You could tell people…”Pffft… yeah… you see this here? It’s the same watch worn by Buzz Aldrin when he stepped on the moon biatch.”

The Omega Seamaster Professional Diver was worn by Daniel Craig in his first Bond movie Casino Royale.

The one below is the Omega Seamaster James Bond Limited Edition.

Have you ever wondered what all those complicated numbers and words on the watch face meant?

Many watch aficionados will pay premium price for these type of collectible watches, as they are more value for their workmanship and aesthetic appeal than for simple timekeeping.

An example of a complicated watch is this IWC Portugieser Perpetual Calendar, retailing at almost $30,000. Wow.

IWC watches are highly respected within the watch community. It’s renowned for the elegance and engineering found in it’s “Flieger,” “Portugieser,” and “Aquatimer” lines.

The Italian luxury watch brand Panerai was founded in 1860, but it’s becoming a favorite with watch lovers on the strength of it’s “Radiomir” and “Luminor” series.

Pictured below is a Panerai Radiomir PAM 210. Simple, elegant. It looks cheap but you’re really paying for the craftmanship, and the quality of the watch, check out the mechanics in the back.

Franck Muller Evolution 3-1

Franck Muller’s slogan is “Master of Complications” - The watches are beautiful and some are really truly complicated like this “Evolution” watch.

Guess how much this watch retails at!? $1,000,000.oo. hahaha.

There are watch crazies out there. To these young guys, in their 20’s and 30’s, with large amounts of money, a watch is about owning a wonderful mechanism, and it is also a power thing. Because you can’t go into a business meeting with a Mercedes-Benz or a Rolls-Royce on your wrist. You can go into a meeting with a Breguet.”

Some history on the brand if you care: Abraham-Louis Breguet is considered by many as the father of watchmaking. Indeed, he is one of the greatest horologists of all time. Since 1775, clients have included Napoleon Bonaparte, Marie-Antoinette, Winston Churchill, Alexander Dumas, Princes, Dukes, Sultans and Kings. Breguet’s influence on watchmaking is unequalled. He perfected the self-winding watch, created the first oil-free escapement, incorporated the first shock absorber into a timepiece, developed perpetual date mechanisms, and invented and patented the Tourbillon. Signature Breguet styling is evident in today’s masterpieces; blue steel hands, guilloche engraving, and the fluted caseband.

Breitling is a brand of Swiss watches from the Canton of Jura. The watchmaker offers Certified Chronometers designed primarily for aviation use, though most frequently worn as high-end luxury watches. Breitling’s watches offer aviation functions, though their chronograph functions have become more of status symbols than practically applied tools.

My friend wears a Breitling, I’d have to say he looks pretty badass wearing it.Breitling Emergency - version contains a radio transmitter for civil aviation use which broadcasts on the 121.5 MHz distress frequency and serves as a back-up for ELT-type airborne beacons. Pretty cool eh?

“In an incident that demonstrates how the Emergency can be used to save lives, Reuters reports that two British pilots, Squadron Leader Steve Brooks and Flight Lieutenant Hugh Quentin-Smith, crashed their helicopter in Antarctica and were rescued after activating their Breitling Emergency transmitter watches. The two pilots were in their lifeboat when a Chilean Otter aircraft found them after homing in on signals from their watches.”

I love this watch, looks very Secret Agent.Watches under 350 dollars:If you’re looking for something stylish and masculine at the same time, check out the leather bracelet watches such as this Nixon Rocker Watch.

It can be sporty, skater, punk, or just stylish casual. These type of watches are very versatile and says you’re laid back and masculine.

Fossil makes some great leather strap watches as well.

 D&G Dolce & Gabbana ‘Sandpiper’ Chronograph Watch

I love the simplicity of the this watch. It makes an elegant statement with the precise watch face and modern enamel buttons. The case and buckle are stainless steel. The black leather band really dresses it up.

Haurex Samoa Black Dial Stainless Steel Chronograph Watch

This is another great watch that has the styling of a watch 10 times its price. The black face with bold white numbers has separate dials to keep track of hours, minutes, and seconds and has a date calendar. Swiss quartz movement and water resistant.

LEATHER BAND OR METAL?

The thing about leather bands is that it enables to you match better with your clothing, and it has more sophistication to it when it’s thin.

For example, take a look at this watch below:

GUESS Men’s Steel Brown Multi-Function Watch

It looks sharp, and would match well with dressed up attire.

Victorinox Swiss Army® ‘Maverick II’ Alarm Watch

If you want a watch that looks like an Omega Seamaster (the James Bond watch) but don’t want the price tag that accompanies it, then this would be a great substitute. And it’s not like it’s an unreliable knock-off either.Check out some more watches in all sorts of different price ranges, here.

Damn! Some Watches Can Get Really Expensive! With watches, you really get what you pay for, so it’s not a bad idea to invest in a high quality timepiece. A quality watch is the quickest way to show a confident and successful image.

You can probably get away with a fake if the people around you know nothing about the watch other than the brand name, but people who know watches will usually spot that fake a mile away. If you were wearing an expensive Breguet, and shook the hand of a millionaire, he’d probably see you’re watch and say to himself, “wow…nice watch.” But unless you’re around people with money, most people won’t know what you’re wearing.

The most well-known brands are owned by a small group of companies, so you can get the same level of craftsmanship of a higher price watch by buying its lower priced cousin in the company product line. For example, if you can’t afford a Movado, you can buy its less expensive counterpart by Esquire.

Certain brand names will be more well known and bring status along with it, like the brand Rolex. Pretty much everyone and their mom know what a Rolex is.

The reason why a Rolex can be so expensive is because the Rolex corporation artificially inflates the price of its watches by limiting the yearly supply of some of its collections, leading to scarcity in the market. Many watch experts say that, for the cost of a Rolex, you can get a higher caliber mechanical watch from a different company.But the status and prestige it projects may be worth the price to some people. It’s an investment and a status symbol.

Begin the Search I wrote this article as an introduction into the world of watches, and why they’re an important piece of a man’s wardrobe. If you have never really looked into investing in a watch, start exploring. Take your time to really do some research and don’t rush. If you fall in love with a particular watch, it could be the greatest accessory you’ll ever own.

You’ll cherish it and every time you put it on you’ll feel that confidence, ready to take on the world.

Tips: Think about the scale of your watch in ratio to the size of your wrist. You don’t want a giant watch on a tiny chicken-bone wrist. Get bigger watches for bigger wrists, but think twice before buying anything bigger than a half dollar.

Buy a watch with a simple silver or stainless steel case and a removable band. You can have a brown leather band, a crocodile band, and even a fun multicolored grosgrain one for summer. It’s a great way to get many different looks out of one watch.

Color: Silver and gold frames are fashionable and classic. Silver watches match best with blacks, grays, silvers, and blues. Gold watches go with browns, beiges, tans, and other earth tones.Check out http://www.goldspeed.com/watches.html for some great prices.

Note: You might want to get a warranty on your watches so check outer online retailers or it may be better to go to an authorized dealer if you want to maybe sell your watch later on. This insures that it’s real and that the serial number and everything that is important is documented.

If you’re interested in learning the intricacies of a quality watch and all the lingo you’ve always wondered about like what “chronometer” means, check out this article on Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Watches

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Important Things You Should Know About Rings

I couldn’t resist putting this video up.

Ah, Lord of the Rings — so much drama over such a tiny thing!

I mean seriously, imagine if one piece of jewelry could change everything. What would happen if there was a ring that gave you the unlimited power of having any women you wanted? What would you do for it?

The biggest war in history will probably arise.

Well, at least the desperate men would fight for it, and all of womankind would fight to destroy it.

I should write the script for that one.

Enough daydreaming, onto the real article…

Lots of guys who are in the community like to wear rings, and for some reason those who don’t wear them feel like they should.

What you need to know…


Not All Guys Can Wear Rings

We’ve all seen people who just don’t seem congruent with jewelry. There are guys who just can’t pull off a ring if their life depended on it. It might be the way their hands are shaped, their overall image, or it’s just inexplainably all wrong.

From my experience, it seems to have a lot to do with the way you carry yourself and the way you are dressed to start with. Experiment with it, because the art of wearing rings is something that you can learn. If you’re still getting negative feedback after a while, accept your fate. You won’t be joining Froto’s gang anytime soon.

The type of ring you wear and how it matches the style of your clothes will be the deciding factor in judging whether it accentuates your look or confuses the hell out of people.

Remember, some people just can’t pull off rings with their look.

A ring wouldn’t do much for Steve Urkel’s look:

It wouldn’t help his image at all, or would it?

Well, maybe if he wore a “Ring Pop”.


What Can The Right Ring Do For Your Look?

The ring itself is won’t do anything for you. But it can be a great add-on to your image if you have other areas of your look managed well.

What these kind of accessories do is give you that extra bit of edge.

Check out Jaleel White — who played Steve Urkel — in this picture:

Whoa, big change. Matched with a completely different and suave image, a few of the right accessories would add that extra edge to his look.
I’m not saying that you need this “edge” — because some guys look better being clean cut and sharp, without all the excess stuff going on.

But others have a strong edgy side to their personality — that can be shown off.

This edge can be sexual; mysterious; romantic; or some loud, fun part of their personality.

Conversational Bits

One thing that always seems to work is playing with your ring in front of people in a conversation.

This works best in a group:

For example the other day Theory and I went out with two girls. While he was speaking to us, (mostly speaking to his target) I sit next to my girl and listen to him intently while flipping my ring from one finger to another.

I see that it grabs the attention of the girl next to me. I knew what was going to happen next from previous experiences.

I decided to try something different — I tried twirling it around on the table in front of me during Theory’s pauses. This works great to hook a girl because it always gets them to want to play with it.

(Tip: Whenever you look like you’re having more fun by yourself with something while other people are just sitting around - they always want to join in) e.g. - a basketball, mini football, paddle ball — they always say “Hey, let me try/see that”.

As soon as she asks to see the ring, I use it as a good time for some hand kino. You could also start teasing her — that her fat fingers will get your ring stuck. It’s fun to tell them that men’s rings look great on them — teasing them on their mannish hands.

Girls always react to this by hitting you or a look on their face like “I can’t believe you just said that.” If she isn’t super hot, she’ll probably feel insecure so assure her that she has beautiful hands.

Sometimes I just playfully compliment them and just start kissing a girl’s hand, as she laughs she gets used to the touch of my lips.

This always makes it easier for a make out. It’s also a great time you could use to segue into a thumb wrestle or other fun games to amp up the playful kino and emotional spikes.


Pick a Ring That Will Accentuate Your Unique Style

Now remember that these are only examples to give you an idea of what to look for:

Search online and look around for some ring.

I’ll give you some examples of what kind of rings match certain styles better than others:

The Rock Star

For those who dress punk, or have the “rock star” look — try these with your graphic tees, bad ass necklaces, belts, and other “rock star” gear.

Classy

These are very masculine rings that go well with guys who like to wear dress shirts, and suit jackets. It pairs well for the classy “money”, clean cut, bold personality. I personally wear these type of rings.

Hip-Hop

Gotta have bling all around.

Unique

These types of rings always get attention and will get people asking about it, I mean look at the one in the picture, I’d comment on it right away if I caught some dude wearing it.

Athletic

These kinds of rings have a “down to earth” feel to them. They match a guy with a relaxed personality. If you’re not the type of guy that likes to wear flashy necklaces, classy dress shirts, or rock & roll type clothing; but dress more rugged with an athletic style - like the Abercrombie look - these type of rings are great for you.

The key is the matte black on the rings - it’s never too flashy and has a relaxed, manly appeal to it.

You could buy these type of rings along with a rubber necklace to create your own unique necklace.

Romantic

If you guys don’t know what a Claddagh Ring is: “Traditionally, if the ring is on the right hand with the heart facing outward and away from the body, this indicates that the person wearing the ring is not in any serious relationship, and may in fact be single and looking for a relationship: “their heart is open.”

Read more about it here: Claddagh Ring

I always see girls wearing these, so who knows — maybe both of you will check each other’s rings out and BAM, true love will flourish.

There are countless numbers of places you can check out rings online, so check them out.

I found one place online that has a variety of rings to make it easier for you guys to look around at the different styles.

Here is the link if you haven’t checked out the ones above yet:

Men’s Rings

They aren’t too expensive; most of these are affordable.

If you want to buy online but don’t know your ring size, go to your nearest jeweler and they can help you figure that out.

Look on Ebay:

Try this place - they have a cool selection of different style rings.

Origin Jewelry - Ebay Store


Shine: a personal caveat

The reason why I chose rings with a dull shine, or a brushed-metal look, rather than brilliant shines, is because shiny rings can look rather tacky with casual wear. Shiny rings tend to go a lot better with more dress-up attire (i.e. blazer).


Color

If you want to go for bolder, more fashionable look, dare to play with colored rings. Just be conscious of color coordinating it with the rest of your outfit.

Lastly, sometimes the simplest and most minimalistic rings can work the best. Notice how Neil Strauss, author of The Game and acclaimed “Pick-Up Artist” sports a simple stainless steel/silver ring on his pinky and middle fingers.

Also notice the width of the rings–they are thicker than your traditional ring (probably ~14mm+) - this adds a bold / unconventional edge to his image. Overall, it works seamlessly with the rest of the outfit while adding that last classy touch to his overall look. Looks like Lisa Leveridge noticed too…

Hope that helps,

Jae

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