I’m sitting here at my favorite cafe sipping on my double espresso, ready to write another post.
What’s funny is that as I write this - what many people believe to be a simple subject - dozens of people are walking in and out who probably never even THINK “color coordinate” when they dress themselves in the morning.
It’s literally like they just put on whatever they like and truly believe that it looks good.
Well, I should go up to them and tell them it doesn’t.
This is a big topic, and I realize that the best way to understand these types of things is to small chunk the information into your brain.
So we’re going to follow the K.I.S.S. method.
(I’ll post more on the topic later on)
The only way you’ll start to get a grasp on this is if you start practicing with the basics.
It becomes confusing and overwhelming if I start throwing out all the “rules”, which prevents you from putting anything you learn into use.
Trust me, I know from experience.
When I first starting learning this stuff I always wished I could just plug a cord into my head and upload all the information into my brain like in The Matrix.
So I’ll save you the long novel and give you something you can IMMEDIATELY start using.
The best way to start is to revisit something you’ve learned in art class way back when you created your first finger painting masterpiece.
THE COLOR WHEEL
You must know what a color’s associations are and how they strengthen or soften each other.
Once you understand these relationships you begin to see how well certain colors pair with each other.
It’s not as simple as just MATCHING the same colors with each other. It gets tricky because there are combinations that are automatically pleasing to the eye and some that really clash.
Some people may find this article boring, but it’s always the simple things that hold the most power when executed correctly.
A lot of people have the “knowledge” but they don’t implement any of it.
For some of you this may just be a refresher.
So here are the basics of the color wheel…
There are three PRIMARY colors – BLUE, RED, and YELLOW.
Adding lightness and darkness to these primary colors forms all other colors.
Adding any of these two PRIMARY colors together gives you a SECONDARY color.
Primary + Primary = Secondary
Example:
Blue + Yellow = Green
Yellow + Red = Orange
Red + Blue = Violet
Then adding measures of light or dark to these colors creates different shades of color as well.
A TERTIARY color is when you mix a SECONDARY color with it’s adjacent PRIMARY color.
Examples:
Green + Blue or Yellow = Blue-Green or Yellow-Green
Orange + Red or Yellow = Red-Orange or Yellow-Orange
Violet + Blue and Red = Blue-Violet and Red-Violet
With this in mind, adjusting amounts of primary colors combined with level of lightness or darkness can create any color in the universe.
PRIMARY and SECONDARY colors that are side-by-side on the color wheel are ANALOGOUS to each other.
Blue’s Analogous = Green and Violet
Orange’s Analogous = Red and Yellow
Analogous colors work well with each other. But only when they are matched according to the levels of light and darkness.
Primary and secondary colors that are opposite each other are COMPLIMENTARY.
Blue is complimentary to orange.
Violet to yellow.
Red to green.
And vice versa.
Pair these colors for a bolder statement. Be careful matching these though, as certain shades will not look good on each other.
I know this is only a small bit of information, but start with this.
2. Remember that Analogous colors work together, but make sure they are of similar value. As a basic color concept, “value” represents the degree of lightness or darkness expressed in every color.
3. Use complimentary colors for a bold statement. Matching complementary colors together is a sign of a confident, knowledgeable dresser, and doing so creates an impressive, color-rich palette.
4. As a general rule of thumb you don’t want to have more than THREE colors in your outfit. So pick three colors to match throughout your entire outfit. Any more than this and it starts getting risky.
5. Use the right colors for your skin tone and coloration. Try different colors against your skin and learn which palettes look best on you. Also, get a second opinion.
Never use holiday colors like red and green UNLESS it is close to that holiday.
Try to avoid gray colors with bright colors such as yellow.
6. The monochromatic look is always safe.
Lighter and darker shades of the same color can often look good when matched, forming a monochromatic effect.
Oh, and make sure to avoid wearing colored pants. Colored pants are clownish and obnoxious. Since pants provide the foundation for every outfit, they should always appear understated, polished and refined — stick to the neutral colored pants.
Unless you want to look like the Outkast guys.
So keep these things in mind every time you dress yourself and start working on building this eye for color coordination TODAY.
Whatever style you go with, remember to create a COMPLETE look. I see a lot of guys who have trouble with this — They may be rocking an expensive pair of dress shoes with the remainder of the outfit being of much lower caliber. Wearing a nice graphic tee with your old, out-of-style gap jeans is not going to work–the tackiness of the jeans will negate any effect the shirt may have had.
The point is this: You don’t want women to be thinking “Oh that’s a stylish shirt that guy’s wearing… oh but look at his lame jeans…”
You want them be thinking:
“That’s one stylish guy.”
This only comes with a complete look–from head to toe.
A great way to achieve a complete look is going to a store like Express or Neiman Marcus and trying out the display outfits on the manikins. Usually, since they are displaying the latest styles in season, they will have every piece from outerwear to the shirt to the jeans already matched. Just look for the identical items in the store, or ask one of the workers for the pieces on the display manikin. Try on a bunch of these display outfits to get a feel for what a complete outfit looks like. Keep this in mind every time you are putting together an outfit. Things should be complimenting each other instead of clashing.
A lot of guys have been messaging us here at Kinowear, asking us how to shop for the right pair of jeans. From the look of some of the pictures they sent in – I felt a strong need to write this article.
Just kidding guys.
What’s in right now?
Unfortunately for some, skinny jeans are in right now. Yeah, I miss my old baggy “skater” jeans too. I know that some of you cringe at the mere thought of wearing something that hugs your ass. Unless you like to wear tightie whities.
You really can’t escape skinnier jeans anyways, since clothing companies just follow the trends and make jeans this way. I’m not talking about the emo style girly pants, but overall the jeans are a lot skinnier than they used to be. Styles and trends and rotated and recycled, in the future we’ll be back to baggy again.
I got used to them though, and I find them rather comfortable now and a lot more stylish than the baggy jeans that I used to wear.
It reminds me of Gumby.
Woohoo!
I used to love Gumby by the way, when I was like 5. It was such a kick-ass show.
But that is neither here no there.
Here’s what one of my girl friends have to say about skinny jeans:
“Hey girls are perverts too, we like a guy with a nice ass.”
(Rock & Republic Jeans)
Bam.
The ladies like to see your ass better – so what the hell - bring on the skinny jeans!
A little warning though, ONLY wear skinny jeans if you are in fact - skinny. If your legs are like tree trunks go for a more relaxed fit.
So more than just following the trend, follow what works best for YOU -otherwise you just look like you are trying WAY too hard to fit in.
(I know I say “find what works best for YOU” all the time but I have to drill it into your heads! It’s frustrating that so many men never follow certain guidelines that could benefit them greatly! It seems so simple yet many people don’t truly “get it.”)
If you can’t slide your wallet in and out of the back pockets with ease, the jeans are too tight. Yell for the salesgirl, maybe she can help you out of them.
Dark denim jeans, with a clean wash and a simple back pocket are some other aspects of what’s in style right now. This “fresh” look goes with almost anything. Something like Levis is a classic example of this.
Peacock with the details
Even though the clean wash is in right now, if you want some flair in your jeans definitely go for ones that “peacock” with a kick-ass back pocket design. This is one of the main components that people look for and notice.
Women are definitely noticing them, and your butt. Show that you’re a man who pays attention to detail by getting jeans with cool pocket details. Oh yeah, and work out that ass flab a little when you’re at the gym next time.
One thing I see all the time are people who are still wearing their oldlight colored jeans.
It’s not a crime to wear light colored jeans but it’s only fine if they hail from the new generation of jeans. This means donate your plain boring light colored jeans, or burn them. Then get a pair with a factory-made “worn” out look.
If your light colored jeans aren’t like this, people will know you purchased them ages ago.
Dark jeans display a “rich” color and texture - definitely what’s in style right now - so I would stick to dark until light colored jeans come back into season.
Jean “wash” technology has come a long way now. Manufacturers blast your jeans with sand and different abrasive materials, along with using different chemicals to give it an acid washed“dirty” look - which saves you the time it takes to do this naturally.
If you have old jeans and you want to give it this same worn out look, take a sandpaper or a brick and rub it wherever you want to wear out. If you want holes you can drag them against asphalt or use a knife to create small holes.
Try taking a REALLY old pair of jeans and make it an art project - see how it turns out. The only way to get good is to practice and keep doing it. You can actually take old jeans and make them look pretty cool. Maybe you can sell it for 90 dollars like Abercrombie and Fitch, their jeans are no better.
Find your fit
When you go shopping for jeans, go with a girlfriend or girl friend. The reason is because she’ll be honest with how you look, and you get a female perspective – who cares what a guy thinks about how your ass looks in those jeans? Well maybe you do, that’s cool.
Since there are so many different signature methods of stitching inseams, and waistbands, along with the many different cuts and fits, find a brand that fits you best - and stick with them. Trust me it’s a lot easier this way, because eventually it’ll feel like these brand of jeans are made solely for you, and you can always trust that you’ll look great in them.
Here is a list of hot premium labels:
Seven for All Mankind
Rock & Republic
Antik
Paper, Denim & Cloth
D & G
Chip & Pepper
True Religion
Blue Cult
Frankie B
Earl Jeans
Marc by Marc Jacobs
Salt Works
Hudson
Earnest Sewn
Joe’s Jeans
Jordache Vintage
Paige Denim
Citizens of Humanity
There are a lot of things to consider when looking for jeans that fit you correctly
You have to consider the length, and inseam – along with how it fits on your waist, thigh, and backside.
Here are some tips:
The Fit
Get the right waist size – not to loose – not too tight. NO jeans hanging off your ass!
The crotch/back seam portion should fit comfortably without grabbing.
Make sure the jeans are long enough to wear with whatever you have planned to go with them, dress shoes or boots. They should reach the top of your footwear in the front. Some manufacturers are even making angled hems to keep you from wearing out the back of the hem.
If it’s too long you can always go get them altered by tailor or your nearest dry cleaners.
Tips for looking good
Ample tummy - Never, ever buy pleats. Choose five-pocket styles or jeans with slash pockets on the diagonal. Look for stretch jeans (that aren’t tight) for some give. Elastic waists may feel comfy, but the denim bunches below the elastic and adds unwanted inches.
Heavy thighs — Go for a style that skims (but doesn’t hug) your leg. Flares and boot cuts are good because they elongate the leg and give some heft to the ankle area to even out proportions. Relaxed jeans will be best for comfort and look, and will give you room in the leg and thigh. Avoid jeans that are high-waisted, too tight or too baggy.
Tall & thin– Try the new retro peg leg (very narrow ankle opening). Look for slim-fit, low-rise jeans with straight legs and slim thighs. Avoid baggy jeans, full thighs and small, tapered bottom openings. Also skip the high waists, especially if you have a long torso.
Short legs — Slim-fit styles with a slight flare make your legs look longer. Avoid cuffs and peg legs. Look for low- to mid-rises, straight legs and regular or slim fits. Avoid baggy and full-fitting jeans and anything that bunches at the bottom.
Average- You are why regular and relaxed-fit jeans are made. Most fits and styles will work for you.
General tips
Heavy, stiffer fabrics (right-hand twills) won’t hang as well on your body. Look for softer weaves and washes that will drape your lower body.
A slight flare looks good on just about every body type.
The darker the denim, the thinner you will look. Conversely, you’ll look larger in lighter washes (and the new treatments that make you new jeans look old that feature “worn” areas will highlight your figure wherever they are — like the backside of your jeans; the folds of the crotch, etc.)
Cleaning your jeans
If you get a nice pair of jeans, try not to wash them as LONG as possible. Washing them will fade them, and you really don’t have to wash them everyday – nobody will notice. When they starts to stink – get them dry cleaned. But trust me when I say only do this a few times a year, because dry cleaning chemicals can fade them over time also.
Here are some jeans to check out:
This has a cool pocket design that will get your jeans noticed any day.
These are jeans by Joe’s that are baggier than most. They don’t have too many “crazy” things going on and it has a clean cut appearance while paying attention to noticeable details as shown above.
A town full of wealthy singles and couples who live in million dollar condos, drive fancy cars, and shop at Whole Foods. I’m thinking about getting a place here. Everywhere I look there are beautiful women.
I’m looking at two gorgeous girls getting into their car right now. What makes them “gorgeous” in my mind is not so much the way they look, but the way they’re DRESSED.
It reminds me of how much power lies within image and first impressions.
They’re gone now, but the way their outfits were put together, along with their nice bodies, made a great impression on me.
The first impression that we make is very important. Whenever we meet new people, they form an impression of us within a few seconds. Then everything we say or do beyond that point is filtered through this impression.
Can you believe that?
Yes, EVERYTHING.
So it’s in our interest to make the best FIRST IMPRESSION. I’m going to teach you how to do that in this article.
The way you are dressed and groomed make up the majority of your first impression. The way you present yourself will speaks volumes about who you are before you even open your mouth.
Think about how many times you sized someone up just by one glance without even speaking to them.
Actually, you barely had time to think because it was probably unconscious and automatic.
What kind of first impression do you give off?
Research shows that it only takes a woman 3-10 seconds to form an opinion of you, and it’s primarily based on what she sees. You only have these few seconds to make an impression on a woman as she gives you the once over at the grocery store or the bar.
She could be thinking, “Well, based on first impression, he’s not the kind of guy that I want” or “This guy looks like someone I might be interested in”.
If you’re going to approach her, it’ll make it a lot easier on you if she already wants you to come talk to her.
If she’s an especially attractive woman, she’s most likely a professional at sizing guys up. Why? It’s because she gets hit on all day, everyday.
Since these women don’t have the time to listen to every single guy’s approach, they adapt the process of dismissing guys who don’t - at the least - look like someone they want to talk to.
This does not mean you have to have Adonis like features, but it means you could afford to dress on par with the type of women you want. Anyone under a woman’s standards of “looks” isn’t really going to make a strong first impression until she gets to really know them. But we’re talking about instant first impressions here. By “looks,” I mean how well dressed and groomed a man is.
Most men dress in a way that tries to make a good impression on “everyone.” This is why they have a look that is “safe” and boring. It doesn’t offend anyone or arouse anyone, it’s just neutral. Well, maybe it does offend the fashion police but that’s about it.
Naturally, we want to attract girls who value the same things we do. I believe the saying “Opposites attract” is incomplete. Opposites only attract when one person values something in another person, but they don’t have what they have. So it really isn’t even opposite, people who value the same thing are attracted to each other. For example, an insecure girl may be attracted to a secure man because deep down she wishes she was confident and strong, so she values that in a man.
This is why you must first be clear on your values before you can create a strong impression.
So what do you value?
Get out a sheet of paper and quickly list all the things you like. Don’t hold anything back. Write about all the things you love, all the things you hate, your code of conduct, and all the characteristics you want in yourself even if you don’t have them right now.
DO THIS EXERCISE. It takes 5 mins. If you don’t you probably won’t develop the kind of first impression that you want.
Once you’re done, look over it.
Everything you listed is probably something you want your ideal girl to have as well. It doesn’t matter if you believe she’s out there or not, that’s why she’s your “ideal” girl.
Start to incorporate what you value into your image, and you’ll have a higher chance of making a great impression on the people that value the same things as you. It’s really simple. I’m not trying to make it harder for you than it is.
So for example, if you like Rock music, and you find yourself attracted to rocker girls, the best way to instantly show your common interests would be to display your love of Rock.
We naturally want to attract a woman who has the same values we do, so this weeds out the kind of girls you don’t want, and increases your chances of hitting it off with a girl you do want.
Grooming
Grooming is very important on first impression as well. Even the most beautiful woman on earth would disgust any man if she walked around smelling like bile with a bird’s nest on her head.
Do your best and work with everything you’ve got grooming wise. Make sure you always have your hair trimmed, face shaved, nails trimmed, teeth white, and yourself smelling great.
Scent is a major factor of first impression as well. A female friend of mine recently told me to stress how important it is for a guy to smell great. “A guy who smells good instantly grabs attention and sparks attraction.”
There you have it boys, go invest in a nice bottle of cologne.
Make sure everything is as good as you can keep it. Why? Because it shows how much self-respect you have for your own body. If people see that you love yourself, it gives them the impression that there must definitely be something about you to love.
I know a girl who liked everything about a guy except for the fact that he had yellow teeth. It simply turned her off. Even one hygienic fault can break a good interaction if not properly taken care of.
So INCREASE your attractiveness by hitting all the points you can. Start comparing yourself with the most stylish guy in the room and checking off what you’ve missed. Women will gauge the quality of everything you wear, along with your hygiene, and then they will make a whole lot of judgments about you based on all the information presented.
Undoubtedly you want to attract beautiful women who have great hygiene and look spectacular all the time. You should at least be at par with them. If you don’t want this kind of woman, stop reading this article.
Make it a HABIT to be well groomed and this will guarantee you always looking your best.
Try this exercise: throughout your day, notice the impression that strangers make on you and why you form certain opinions about them. Notice who is wearing designer jeans, who isn’t, and who just trimmed their nails or got a haircut. Notice when it is that you find yourself attracted to a girl, and when you don’t. Also, look at guys and try to figure out their story, you’ll catch on quick to the little nuances that are sending bad messages.
SERIOUSLY, try this and it’s going to be wild how quickly you begin to pick up on these cues once you become more perceptive. Women are better at this than we are, because it’s in their culture to care more about appearance. They have a lot more practice with it. But it’s a skill that men can easily learn as well. Bang it into your brain that women are conscious of all of the details in your appearance - so you should know what you’re presenting.
Here’s an example of some well-groomed guys:
Make them do a “double-take”
Women will notice the attention you give to detail, organization and cleanliness, and conclude that this attitude overflows into all the other areas of your life. All of this encompasses a successful, confident, and attractive man.
Remember that this first impression of you sets the stage, which you will then fill in congruently as they get to know more about you.
For those guys who are extremely thin or overweight - accept who you are - you have the ability to look just as good as everyone else. Do the best with what you have by playing on your strengths and stereotypes.
If you are skinny, wear clothes that fit you but that aren’t too tight. Baggy clothing will make you look even thinner. Wear layers to add mass and make a good impression through a unique and creative style. Do yourself a favor and join a gym, I guarantee you’ll feel a lot more confident about yourself as you gain muscle, as well as feel stronger.
I used to be really skinny in high school, but after I started to work out regularly and increase the amount that I ate, I got a lot bigger and everyone started to compliment me - especially women.
If you are a big guy, try dressing like a ‘bouncer’ or a powerful business mogul in power suits. This plays on your strengths and GOOD stereotypes. The alternative would be to fill the stereotype of an alcohol binging, pizza gorging frat guy.
There is no excuse for you guys not to join a gym as well. Looking and actually feeling healthier will only help you in the game with women.
What kind of first impression do you give off?(Ask a good friend to write 5 impressions they get from you) - what did they think when they first met you?
Anyway, that’s about all I have to say on this topic for today. Hopefully you guys have gained a new perspective.
When I was very young boy, one of the many stupid goals in my life - was to find myself the perfect pair of sunglasses. It felt next to impossible to find myself a pair that fit my face correctly. It seemed like a never ending quest to find the level of contentment I wished for.
Every time my family went out shopping, I would look for a new pair of sunglasses that could outdo my current pair. When I finally found one that I liked, I usually ended up breaking or losing it. Perhaps I meant to.
Finding the right pair of sunglasses is never an easy task. Everything matters.
When searching for a pair, notice how they fit accordingly to the structure of your face.
Does it line with your eyebrows?
Does the shade color match your hair? Skin tone?
Does the style go with the style of your clothing?
What does it convey about your personality?
I can write a book on the art of sunglasses, and that’s not something to really brag about, just that I’m serious when I say I was obsessed with them as a little kid. Practically all of the pictures of me in my family album have me wearing sunglasses - expect when my mother would make me take them off. Over the years I have become a connoisseur when it comes to choosing the right pair.
Many people think they’ve found a great pair for themselves- but they could look a WHOLE lot better- even when they spend hundreds of dollars on their sunglasses. Why not make the most of your purchase?
Some of these expensive ones people buy for themselves might as well cost 10 dollars with the way it looks on them. It’s not the price that matters, but how well they suit you.
To prevent this type of fashion Faux Pas, I’ll tell you important factors that you should consider when choosing the right pair.
Let’s get to it.
The Journey To Your Perfect Pair
When it comes to picking your preferred sunglasses, along with the look, remember they are also a significant part of our clothing needs. Trying them out is like trying on a new pair of shoes that should fit your feet, or a suit that needs to fit your whole being for a casual or classy dinner. The sunglasses should reflect the whole you and not just be an ornament.
First off, it’s a good idea to consider your budget. Some designer sunglasses can reach up to $200 or more, while others fall under $20. Of course, there are many sunglasses that may be perfect for you in between.
Some practicality mixed with a little common sense will save you a lot of money and trouble in the sunglass hunt.
When it comes to sunglasses, it is imperative that you try them on before you buy them. This is important because you must see and feel the look and fit on your own face.
If you are looking to buy sunglasses online to save money, your best option is to still try them on at the store. Keep in mind which ones you like and might consider purchasing, and write down the exact model name and code to search for online.
Another way to save money - while looking good at the same time - is by getting a pair at a stand where they sell designer replicas. If you can, compare the replica with the real ones, and if you can’t tell the difference, by all means go for the replica. Rare, but for some models, you won’t be able to tell the difference from the real ones depending on the style and material of the shades.
But here is the thing, when I was a kid, the most I ever spent on sunglasses was $10. But ever since my first pair of real, quality sunglasses, I could never go back.
The day that I bought expensive sunglasses, I learned that the price really has to dowith the quality of thelens. The difference in the quality of vision and experience is remarkable.
So personally, I like to go for the high-end designer sunglasses because of the amazing blend of quality and fashion.
If you’re looking for a serious pair to keep with you for a long time, it’ll be worth the investment. Expensive designer lenses allow much sharper vision than pieces of plastic that have a sprayed-glare.
Seriously though, don’t take my word for it, find out for yourself. In the end it’s all about what you’re happy with.
UV protection is very important, so lens quality is essential to your health. Experts say “Your sunglasses must provide protection from ultraviolet radiation, a component of sunlight that contributes to eye disease. The FDA, the government agency that oversees sunglass manufacture and sales in the U.S., recommends you look for sunglasses with lenses that block 99-100% of UVA and UVB radiation. The label should read either UV 400 or 100% UV protection.”
You don’t have to go for expensive, but it’s important to look for the UV protection. Protect your eyes.
Why it Peacocks
Sunglasses are the perfect element that add “POWER” to your look. It’s always a valuable add-on to your wardrobe.
The eyes are the source of power in social dynamics. If over 90% of communication is derived from nonverbal cues, and if the eyes are the most important nonverbal communicator, then we have an argument that sunglasses are damn powerful tools to have in your bag.
Think about it. During lie tests, what’s the biggest way someone gives their power away? Their eyes give away their lie. When you’re interacting with a girl of supposed higher value, what’s the main element that can show whether you are supplicating to her value or surpassing it. Your eye contact.
In poker, sunglasses work the same way.
Sunglasses prevent others from taking your power. You can’t grasp an individual if you can’t look into the window to his mind. An alpha male with shades will not only be exuding presence but it’s hard to really get a hold on what he’s really conveying because you can’t see his eyes. He could be looking straight at you - or elsewhere. You don’t know. You’re forced to take him as he is.
Sunglasses also makes the eyes look BIGGER. It’s like exaggerating your power source.
Sunglasses add power to the one place where power is taken and given in terms of non-verbals (THE EYES).
See the difference:
Brad Pitt without Sunglasses
Brad Pitt with Sunglasses
Wearing sunglasses in the club
If you plan on wearing sunglasses at the club, make sure you walk into the club with them on - don’t decide to put them on while you’re inside. This way it looks like you’ve been out with them all day and happened to end up at the club, instead of being the guy who brings sunglasses to wear to the club. It’s also cool to wear them on top of your head as an accessory.
Coming from experience, if you are going to wear sunglasses at an indoor party (or at night) like a celebrity, it’s ten times better if you wear a pair that enables other people to see your eyes.
Check out how Bono wears his.
(Notice how it adds more power to image)
I say this mainly because wearing really dark glasses at night comes off as “try hard”. Wearing lighter shades will also help you avoid smacking into walls, and making a fool out of yourself. What if that girl you think you’re talking to is really a dude?
Basically, you don’t want to look like you can’t see where you’re going. It’s totally acceptable to wear dark ones when it’s bright out, but get a light pair for the bars and clubs.
Speaking of wearing shades when the sun is shining beautifully outdoors, keep in mind that NOT wearing shades just distorts your whole face. Squinting your eyes makes your whole face become crooked and ugly. Not to mention shielding your face with your hand looks like you’re looking for dry land. These people look constipated most of the time, it’s hilarious.
You would look more attractive, relaxed, and composed with shades to protect you from those harmful UV rays.
If she asks…
Say you’re rocking those shades in the club one night, exuding that image of a celebrity when that one curious girl comes up and drops the question:
“Why are you wearing sunglasses inside a club?”
Joke around and say…”these are 007 x-ray glasses honey.. I can see right through your blouse!”
(cheesy, but trust me its great at breaking the tension)
Or a little edgier: “I decided to be a little adventurous tonight. I’m sorry, am I disrupting your status quo?” (playfully with a smile)
Simpler: “I’m just too cool for this place…” (playfully with a smile)
The key is to keep a strong frame, and not come from a place of attempting to explain yourself - like you broke some rule. Your just a cool guy who wears shades at night, so what - you do what you want.
It always makes for a cool conversation piece, or a prop, because girls will comment on it if you approach them. Putting your sunglasses on a girl’s head is a great way to show a playful side of you, at the same time locking them in. This prevents them from running off, because they have something that is yours, but mostly because you disarmed their guard by making them laugh.
Decide What Type of Sunglasses You Are Looking For
Are you looking for something really flashy and attention grabbing like Dolce and Gabbana, or Prada sunglasses?
Or something more casual like these Rayban aviators.
Color pairing
Find a pair that matches your hair color and skin tone. For example dark rims or a really dark shade would match a whole lot better for a male with darker skin tone and hair color — whereas gold rims, or yellow lenses would be better suited for a light skinned male with light colored hair. Generally, silver rims are flattering for guys with darker hair, and gold for guys with blonde hair.
Also, try to pair the color of the rim with the color of your jewelry. Silver with silver, gold with gold. You don’t want to be mixing gold and silver, it’s tasteless and inelegant.
The fit
A general rule is to look at how the top of the rims line up with your brow line.
Does it hug the side of your face or is there a lot of space in between? They should follow the curves of your face without being too tight against your skin.
How does it sit on your nose? If you don’t have much of a nose bridge between your eyes, go for a pair with an adjustable bridge rather than one with plastic rims.
Does it hug the curves of your face with some space, or does your skin touch the lens too much? If you smile widely and your sunglasses are shooting up, they are too close to your cheeks.
Keep all of these things in mind when choosing your pair.
What’s in style right now
The sunglasses that are in style right now are those with faded color lens (gradient lens). Thick black rimmed sunglasses are also in style.
Prada
Try wearing these types with a stylish sport jacket.
You also can’t really tell these thick rimmed types from the replicas so check out the replicas for comparison.
Remember most sunglasses are unisex, but there are those that are obviously female - labels like Chanel and Kate Spade, and those with jewelry on it.
Ray-Ban Aviator
This casual pair goes with everything, from dressing down to your flashy attire.
Diesel - These are awesome for that “rockstar” look, sporty but with panache. Try this with a “fresh” clean look, with bright colors and maybe a white sports jacket.
Dolce & Gabbana
These are definitely attention grabbing and loud. Not for amateurs.
Prada
I have a pair of these and they fit my face perfectly. People always try to steal them off my face and try to look as good as me, with little success. It proves the point that you have to find what fits YOUR face, and what looks good on you specifically.
Emporio Armani
Simple, yet elegant. These are great for those who dress up for the office - the purple lens would pair perfectly with a grey suit.
Ermenegildo Zegna Park Sunglasses
A pair of these will scream “style” and “power” at the same time.
Now go try some on next time at your nearest store!
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Stay sharp,
Jae
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(This is exactly why dressing differently is necessary. Somebody get these guys a round of Caramel Conformiatos.)
When it comes to dressing up to go out and meet women, the term “Peacocking” tends to come up for a lot of guys in the community. It’s become a very loosely used term. For those unfamiliar, here’s some quick background.
VH1 The Pick Up Artist & The Game’s Mystery, is credited as the innovator who coined the term. It comes from the idea of showcasing yourself like a male peacock that spreads its giant feathers to attract the females.
Peacocking CORRECTLY instantly makes you stand out in an ATTRACTIVE way amongst all the other guys around you who just try to “fit in”. When you look like all the other losers that approached the hot chick and failed, she’s probably already categorized and disqualified you with the rest of them.
Women “Peacock” all the time.
Just look at the way they dress when they are out at the bars or clubs. They wear things that show off their cleavage, super short miniskirts with high heels, and vibrant clothing. The key concept here is that they dress to stand out. What most guys don’t realize is that they can get noticed in this manner as well.
As an instructor I see a lot of students who have taken “Peacocking” the wrong way. Most guys totally misunderstand the concept of it – giant hats and shirts that light up often just look ridiculous. This may get you noticed, but what it usually conveys is how much of a clown for attention you are.
Your “fun” impression is short-lived, and ultimately this isn’t attractive to women. People will get a kick out of it when there isn’t much else going on, but eventually they will check you off as some random weirdo.
“But Mystery wears this kind of stuff and he gets girls!” Yes. But Mystery is an illusionist/magician, conveying this through his clothing. This “stage wear” is congruent to who he is. He even has the magic skills to back it up. So if you’re not a magician, it’s not a good idea to randomly wear furry hats and goggles.
The “bigger picture” is for how you DRESS to fuel you into becoming the man you want to be.
Theory and I have teamed up to create this informational site to help guys get the fashion edge that their female counterparts have squandered their lives to gain. Not only will you find yourself enlightened about blazers, club wear, designer jeans, and where to shop for cheap, but hopefully, you will come to a better understanding of how to CONVEY YOUR PERSONALITY through your image in a bold, yet stylish way.
According to the old axiom “dress for success,” if you want to become a rock star, you should start dressing like one. This helps instill a mindset that not only gets you acting like one, but building congruency over time.
The most important step to building a BOLD, yet congruent image is deciding on the persona you want to convey to others. Are you the millionaire media mogul? The mysterious illusionist? Or the loud rock star? Whoever it may be, every piece of dress will confirm or negate that character.
Just look at Mystery’s unique style and then the guys in the first picture above. It’s the attack of the clones.
Peacocking correctly with style gives people a reason to open YOU. Trust me this WILL happen.
Example: Earlier today, I saw this girl with gauge earrings, and this mere detail sparked a curiosity that had me asking “hey did those hurt?” It was automatic - her earrings had opened me.
Most guys try not to get NOTICED, but become the invisible man.
The biggest reason why people wear ‘safe” and accepted attire is because they can’t handle the social pressures of being the center of attention. Wearing ridiculous items is a great way to start out if you are beginner (it will help you get comfortable with being the center of attention). You can experiment with this, but it’s not necessary. This is not what peacocking is really about.
You will feel more confident knowing that you actually look good and stand out as a stylish guy. Women will be a lot more attracted to you this way as well.
Work on your new look starting TODAY
First, figure out how you regularly choose to present yourself to the world. What kind of look do you see yourself in? What roles do you play daily that impact your style? If you are having a hard time, search the internet for styles that celebrities have and try imitating those that catch your eye. Then go out and see how it works for you.
Theory and I will continue giving you the edge in men’s fashion to help you build a “look” with gravity. Check back with us to get more fashion tips and share and discuss with others on our forums!
